A lot of parents believe that instilling a sense of fear into their children will cause them to become more disciplined and more obedient. Based on my own experience, this doesn’t really work in the long run. I developed a fear of being yelled at or hit whenever I did something wrong, and this led to a growing habit of hiding everything from my parents. I would run and hide in fear of being caught. When being punished, it was always the broom or hand that I would be spanked with. I just love it when an Asian parent is acting like a stereotypical Asian parent.
Instead of disciplining their children through the fear tactic, parents should set realistic expectations for their children, and have a consequence when their children can’t meet those standards. Violence is never the answer when dealing with children. Children and teens nowadays are on their phones or other electronic devices all the time, so taking away those things would be a good choice for a punishment. This way children won’t develop any physical or mental damage, and will be taught that there are expectations they have to keep up with in order to avoid the consequences.
I understand that taking care of a child is mentally and physically draining, but remember that whatever you do to the child is going to affect them one way or another. The relationship between a parent and their child also depends on this. Using violence as a way to discipline isn’t going to be worth it, and any other peaceful method is going to be better than this.
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